When Harry Met Sally
When Harry Met Sally
When Harry Met Sally… (1989) is a beloved romantic comedy directed by Rob Reiner and written by Nora Ephron. The film is widely regarded as one of the best in its genre and has become iconic for its witty dialogue, memorable scenes, and exploration of love and relationships.
The story follows Harry Burns (played by Billy Crystal) and Sally Albright (played by Meg Ryan), two college graduates who meet by chance while driving from Chicago to New York City. Over the course of the film, the two develop a complex and evolving relationship, moving from initial antagonism to friendship, and eventually, to romance. The question at the heart of the film is whether men and women can truly be “just friends” or if romantic feelings are inevitable.
The movie spans several years, showing various moments in Harry and Sallyβs lives as they encounter new relationships, personal growth, and the challenges of navigating love and friendship. As their friendship deepens, the two grapple with their own insecurities, past experiences, and the eventual realization that they may be perfect for each other.
One of the filmβs most memorable aspects is its sharp, witty dialogue, full of insightful and humorous observations about love, relationships, and the differences between men and women. The film features the famous scene in Katz’s Delicatessen in New York, where Sally demonstrates how women can fake an orgasm in public, leading to the classic line, “I’ll have what she’s having,” spoken by a fellow diner (played by Estelle Reiner, Rob Reiner’s mother).
When Harry Met Sally… explores themes of timing, personal growth, and the transformative nature of relationships. It touches on the idea that love can sneak up on you when you least expect it and that true love often grows out of friendship.
The film is a timeless classic that has become a cultural touchstone, celebrated for its honest portrayal of relationships, its clever humor, and the chemistry between Crystal and Ryan. It was nominated for multiple awards and remains a quintessential romantic comedy that continues to resonate with audiences today. Its iconic status is cemented, especially around the New Yearβs Eve scene, where Harry declares his love for Sally in a heartfelt moment that brings the film to a satisfying and hopeful conclusion.